年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,
但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。
慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences.
But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough.
You need time to know, to forgive and to love.
All this needs a very big mind.
有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?
我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。
有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。
我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。
最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love?
We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world.
But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light.
We all thought love was very deep, but infact it's very thin.
The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time.
在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。
不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。
只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。
可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves.
And then begin to love.
Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to loveor how long it will be.
Just wait for one love.
Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself
.
我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖,什么都可以接受。
相反,我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程,知道自己最重要的是什么,知道不重要的东西是什么。
而后,做一个纯简的人。
I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything.
Conversely, I think it's aselecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least.
And then be a simple man.
我知道这世上有人在等我,尽管我不知道我在等谁。
但是因为这样,我每天都非常快乐。
I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is.
But I feel happy every day for this.
好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,
坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person
while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。
幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。
当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand.
It’s about having each tiny wish come true,
or having something to eat when you are hungry
or having someone's love when you need love.